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Upgrade when it suits you

The essentials stay free. Upgrading simply gives you more options.

Discovery, matching, conversation, safety, and privacy are free for everyone. Paid plans expand who you can meet or let you start one new conversation; they never override another member's choices.

The same privacy for everyoneSecure payment outside AsheghamMatches and chats stay free
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Three simple choices

Start free. Upgrade only when you want more.

See every meaningful difference here, before you choose a plan.

Everything you need to begin

Free, always

Everything you need to meet someone and have a mutual conversation.

$0forever
  • Browsing and filtering every profile
  • Expressing interest in 10 people a day
  • Unlimited conversation once interest is mutual
  • Every privacy control, from a hidden profile to blocking
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More choice

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Gold

For more choice, and to see everyone who has shown interest in you.

$9/ month
  • Unlimited expressions of interest
  • See everyone who is interested in you
  • Your profile is shown ahead of others
  • Everything in the free plan
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Yearly saves $29 USD compared with paying monthly.

Start one new conversation

Platinum

Send one first message to someone you have not matched with yet.

$59/ month
  • Everything in Gold
  • You can write the first message to someone who has not matched you yet
  • 5 people a day, 25 a month.
  • Anyone who has switched direct messages off cannot be written to on any plan.
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One first message per person. You cannot send another unless they reply.

Gold for someone you care about

Why gift codes exist

A friend or relative can buy a few months of Gold and send you the code privately. You do not need their card or bank account to redeem it, and their name is never shown.

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The Ashegham promise

What never changes when you pay

  • You are shown only to people whose two-way filters already fit. Payment never forces your profile into someone's view.
  • No plan unlocks another member's private photos or hidden information.
  • Matches and conversations remain when a plan ends, and messages after a match are never metered.

Prices are shown in U.S. dollars. Card details never pass through Ashegham. Provider-hosted subscriptions renew on the cadence shown at checkout, and access activates only after verified payment confirmation.

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